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Is Older Child Adoption for You?

Aidan
is waiting...

He is an active and energetic 13-year-old who loves sports and likes to give hugs. Aidan also enjoys playing board games and video games...

Paul
is waiting...

Soft-spoken and laid-back, Paul wants to be a billionaire someday. The fact that science and math are his favorite subjects...

Chris
is waiting...

Chris is an active 15-year-old who enjoys horses and horseback riding. When he is not riding horses he loves video games,...

Miguel, Gary, and Jacob’s A-OK Journey

Gary and I met in December of 2014. We knew from the start that we always wanted to have children as our first priority has always been family.  In 2017 we got engaged and knew right away we wanted to start our adoption journey.  Gary and I first thought of fostering to adopt, but after learning the main purpose of foster care was to reunify children with their parents, we reflected on this and felt this was not the best path for us.

A-OK Program – Adopt An Older Kid Program

The A-OK Program, Adopt an Older Kid, is a special program of Adoption STAR.

If you’re hoping to expand your family, adopting from our A-OK Program may be the right decision for you. Adoption STAR works hard to develop relationships throughout the United States with agencies and counties responsible for children in foster care. If you are hoping to adopt an older child or a sibling group in the United States, you should seriously consider our comprehensive program. Get started today by clicking the button below or simply give us a call at 1-866-691-3300.

Getting Started: Your 12 Step Guide

Amazing Benefits Older Kids Receive Just
By Being Adopted:

  • They will be obtaining stability.
  • They will have positive role models.
  • They will increase positive attachments.
  • Their coping skills will be enhanced.
  • They will receive resources and support for a lifetime.
  • They will have an immediate family.
  • They will have an extended family.
Text (For Birth Parents)
800.639.0709

Foster Care Then and Now

Foster Care Then and Now

While foster care existed before the 19th century in various forms, it wasn’t until 1853, when Charles Brace created the Orphan Train Movement where he planned for city children living in poor conditions to be sent to live and work on farms. More than 120,000 children were transported to new lives through the early 1900s. Today the foster care system is over run due to neglect, domestic violence and drug abuse and addiction. The system when it succeeds reunites birth parents and children into stronger families, or identifies a kinship placement. If that fails then the child is hopefully adopted by their foster parent(s). Close to 50% of foster families do not proceed with the adoption of the child or children in their home. Foster Care was meant to be a temporary living situation but unfortunately children remain there for years, often changing foster homes frequently, and as they get older, moving into group homes or finding themselves homeless or incarcerated.

Is Older Child Adoption for You? Take This Quiz

Every adult living in your house should complete this self-assessment quiz. Discuss the results openly and honestly. It may help you decide if older child adoption is right for your family.

1. I need a child so I won’t feel so unhappy.

 
 

2. Children from foster care are easy to please because they are so happy to have a home.

 
 

3. Providing a home to a child from foster care is a way to rescue children from a difficult situation.

 
 

4. The money paid through a subsidy will help me meet all of my expenses.

 
 

5. All that children need is a lot of love.

 
 

6. I can contribute to a better society by being a good parent.

 
 

7. I did a pretty good job with my other children so I think I’ll be good with a child from foster care.

 
 

8. My child needs a playmate. My child wants a sibling.

 
 

9. I know I have a lot to learn about parenting children from foster care but I want to begin.

 
 

10. Childhood can be a difficult time. I feel I can relate to children going through rough times.

 
 

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A-OK Program FAQ

Please contact us if you find your questions are not answered here.

Why did Adoption STAR create the A-OK Program?

If a child is waiting for an adoptive family, they are not A-OK. Let’s face it… Countless children in our very own country are in foster homes, group homes, hospitals and institutions. Every year, thousands of children age-out of the system, simply because they were never adopted. This is not OK.

 

Adoption STAR created the A-OK program to identify families for children waiting in U.S. foster care. Adoption STAR does not create foster homes for children, but certifies families to adopt children from foster care. Adoption STAR creates matches between waiting children and families. Adoption STAR prepares families for the match, works with them through the entire journey pre-placement, placement, post-placement and post adoption.

 

Adoption STAR believes that every child needs and deserves a forever family and that there is a forever family for every child. Permanency planning is our number one goal for children in foster care.

Who are the older kids available for adoption?

Why chose Adoption STAR for older child adoption?

Do older kids have a say in their adoption?

Can we adopt a child as they are aging out of foster care who may be 18 or older?

Does my geographic location matter?

What type of families are you looking for?

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